It’s damn hard to be a real woman.!

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Being a woman, is not an easy task..!! A man cannot do things which a woman can by default..! World can never be complete without a woman.!And I’m not a feminist..!

Well the above three statements did make me sound like one.!But let me explain myself more clearly. Well you might be thinking that I might just be making usual statements like there are many things which a women can do and men can’t.! Haha I know I know, first thing what you can think of is being pregnant and going through terrible and horrifying pain.! They can dance in five inch heels and still smile, they can  guess easily what’s going on in other person’s mind.! They can cry and keep worrying if their make up was ok.! They can keep smiling when they feel like shit on the inside.!They can keep talking like forever.! ;) Blah, blah, blah..!Well most of that was true though, but that’s actually not the hard part being a woman..! Those are just some things that women keep doing and men don’t.! Most of them are stupid too.!

The hardest part of being a women is being herself..! Confused again?? Well, it’s like this.. Woman basically is scared of being herself.! I don’t say that all women are this way.. but most of them who live their life to the fullest did undergo “transformation” . When someone talks about an ideal woman the things that come to their mind are “giving”, “sharing”, “loving” etc… So, it’s like a lot of expectation is associated with a woman.  She can deserve the word  accomplished only when she meets other’s expectations..!This is because the thinking of a woman by default is such. Women find happiness or satisfaction in giving. They suppress their hopes, expectations, needs etc.. just to show other’s that they care for them. They think that showing that the other person means more to them, would strengthen their relationship.  They are scared that they might fail at some point if they hold back. That people will no longer like her if she’s not giving enough or not like how others expect her to be. Hence, people blindly think that she has the capacity of giving on and on and on..!

With all the burden of living up to expectations, spreading unlimited love and affection and all the mumbo-jumbo, it is hard to keep her inner self alive for much long.! They get too caught up on making others happy.!  To make someone happy you need to know them, understand them, love them, and keep thinking whats going on in their mind, what would they possibly want? A man can never keep guessing or have that much patience to try and make others happy (but yeah they would give in their best efforts when they are given a clear statement) as he can be a little insensitive at times. That is the true reason I think being a true woman is hard ..!

It is true woman feels happy when she makes others happy.!But she finds true happiness when someone really acknowledges that..! To all the women, I’d just like to say keep in touch with your inner self too.! It is as important as breathing is to stay alive.! So stay alive, have fun, spread love.! That’s the perfect combo to be happy.!

Learnt it one fine day..!

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